Alexandria's Words


Don't Mind Your Business – Part 2

*Disclaimer: I quote people in this blog that use the terms "prostitute" and "hooker". These terms are offensive, harmful, and archaic and we should instead use the terms: "sex worker" or "full-service sex worker". …

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You Don’t Need To Be Fully Healed To Help Others — You Just Need To Be One Step Ahead

A dangerous form of insecurity and imposter syndrome that thwarts our endless potential to abundantly help, support, and serve others is the false belief that we don’t possess the skills necessary to do so because …

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Stop Saying “But” — Say “And” Instead

The word “but” uniquely triggers every human being when it’s directed to them because we generally misuse the term, rendering its use counterproductive. Furthermore, when we use the word “but”, we don’t correctly …

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Why We Should Stop Using the Word “Humble”

Humility doesn’t mean what we think it means. Generally, we think it means selfless and wise. What it really means is modest and submissive, two principles that reduce one’s worth and value, especially …

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Trauma Bonds Tether Us To Unending Anguish: Sever Them by Pledging Allegiance To Yourself

Emotional trauma is multilayered — it’s aggressive, manipulative, and sneaky. And with regards to the sly nature of psychological abuse, it will support survivors to know they may still actually be connected to their …

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Family Trauma

“Honor Thy Father and Mother” — Sure, If They Earn It First

Respect is to be earned — no exceptions.

Ten commandments and religion aside, this notion that children are forever expected to morally obligate themselves into showing unparalleled reverence for their parents, biological or otherwise, is …

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Don't Mind Your Business – Part 1

Last week, I was hanging out in one of my favorite corners of the internet, a Patreon hosted by two of my most revered inspirations. I arrived at their hub and joyfully watched another video …

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Family HSP

I Googled the Definition of "mother"...

Mother's Day was yesterday, May 8, 2022. I Googled the definition of mother and the above image is a screenshot of what the Oxford English Dictionary provided.

Per the image above, this is how sensitivity …

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"People Will Do Almost Anything to Not Feel Pain"

How relatable is this teaching from Queen B? 

Do you feel this? Because MY GOODNESS this is REAL.

It's real that we experience this on both the giving and receiving end of confrontation and accountability. …

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