About Alexandria

  • HSP | Communication Coach | Speaker | Writer | Trauma Survivor | Pattern Disrupter


I Am

Hello there! My name is Alexandria Thibodeaux! I am a highly sensitive Creole living amongst the Rocky Mountains of Denver, CO with my husband and our 3 animal companions: Zuni & Theo (our cats) and Herman (our dog).

I work in both the personal and businesses arenas.

I serve as a communication coach, speaker, and writer who helps entrepreneurs scale their businesses and self-motivated individuals advocate for themselves with the implementation of effective communication.

As an experienced coach, communication subject matter expert, and highly sensitive person (HSP), I combine my innate gifts with my honed skills to help entrepreneurs & business owners scale their businesses and generate more revenue by communicating with your team with clarity, poise, inner-security, and self-reverence.


I do this work because:

Effective communication is EVERYTHING. It's how we create movement in this world, it's how we push the collective forward, progress human society, advocate for ourselves & others, and create change. It's how we represent ourselves in integrity. It's how we thrive in fulfilling interpersonal relationships. And as entrepreneurs, it's how we scale our businesses and nurture & maintain socially and financially successful businesses.

I also do this work because:

I believe in a world where each human being functions from the foundation of self-reverence — deep respect & admiration for the self.

Why?

Because we each possess uniquely significant gifts to support our collective, global community and progress human society -- that makes you extraordinary and of unparalleled value and worth.

AND

Because each of us has triumphed over trauma! Overcoming both emotional and physical trauma is extraordinary and warrants infinite self-respect and self-admiration!

These truths represent each person’s extraordinary worth and value, meriting deep self-respect and self-admiration: self-reverence.


My Story

I am currently experiencing a journey I am calling an Identity Rebirth & Cultural Renaissance. You see — I am 29, almost 30, and discovered only just 4 years ago that I have African ancestry in my DNA. AND… it gets more interesting… it wasn’t until March 2020, that I actually received familial confirmation, affirmation, and validation that I am, in fact, a Black american. Essentially, I just fully and securely discovered that I’m Black after 29 years of believing and living as though I was white.

SAYYY WHATT?!

Yes. This is all true! It’s WILD!

Long story short — I’m Black, my parents are Black, my whole family is Black — and my parents (and biological sister who is 20 years older than me) rejected their truth as Black americans and raised me to do the same and believe and live as though I was white, which in their view, was better. I was raised to demonize Black people and anything related to Black culture.

Here’s the rub. I am Creole, a person or people of mixed colonial French, African American, Spanish, and Native American ancestry. To alleviate any confusion — this translates to the race of Black. I am Black. Creoles are Black. My parents and extended family are from Southern Louisiana and many of them still reside there. Not my immediate family. I was born and raised in one of the whitest places ever: Naperville, IL. So I grew up away from any people of color or any type of cultural diversity. Just white, white, white. This is why I was able to easily live this gaslit lie of being white and white-passing when I definitely wasn’t and still am not! It wasn't until I was 20 years old and met my wonderful husband, John, (the whitest man ever) and he enlightened me and I healed from my racist mindset. Thank goodness!

Now that I know my truth, I am whole-heartedly embracing it! I am a loud, proud, Black woman! It’s been a wonderfully expansive journey so far and I am loving learning more and more about myself and my culture each day!


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